The Tradition Of Funerals
Author: Michelle Bery
Death, unfortunately and inevitably, is a part of the cycle of
life. Of course, this inevitability means that at one time or
another in the course of our lives, we will be faced with the
death of a loved one. At such times, along with the despair and
grief, comes the necessity of making arrangements. Funerals are
a part of the ceremony of death, varying depending on culture,
religion, and geographical location. But, no matter how they are
performed, funerals share common ground in that they honor the
life and memory of the deceased and offer a final goodbye for
their family.
No funeral is the same, as no person is the same. While there
are generalities to modern funerals, there are also personal
touches added to reflect the unique personality of the deceased
and personalize the services. Funerals may begin, depending on
the family background, with a wake or viewing. While open casket
viewings continue to be customary, some families choose to close
the casket and instead display pictures of the deceased.
Funerals will normally also include a service of some kind. A
service can be held at a funeral parlor or in a church,
synagogue, or other place of worship depending upon the family's
particular traditions. Many people choose to personalize this
portion of funerals by including readings by loved ones or
excerpts from poems or literature that was particularly special
to the deceased.
Other family members choose to have a memorial service
following the burial at a later time. In this way – as opposed
to traditional funerals – loved ones can gather at any special
place they choose to honor the deceased without the presence of
the casket.
The planning of funerals also includes burial services. There
are of course different options when it comes to burial
including family cemetery plots and mausoleums. There is also
the option for cremation after which you can scatter the ashes
in a particularly special place.
Ultimately, funerals are meant to honor the life of someone you
love. Add your special touches to make it a lovely and lasting
memorial.
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