Kiss Her Better Than The Other Guy
Author: Christopher Williams
Because of the nature of my writing it is essential that I have
a large number of women friends. Of course they rarely
completely agree on every topic. However, there is one thing
that every single one of them is in universal agreement about.
...Bad kissers immediately lose any chance of sleeping with
them.
Yes, apparently, a guy can do everything right all evening but
if he sucks (sometimes literally) at kissing she'll immediately
say her grandma is dying and get the hell out of there.
Why is a simple thing like kissing such a big deal to women?
Well, in her mind, if a guy can't do an easy thing like kissing
well, he's probably not going to be that great at other sensual
things either.
Fortunately, you don't have to be one of those guys. Study the
following kissing tips and leave the getting ditched to the
other chumps.
Make sure you're kissable
This one's easy but definitely necessary. Start by practicing
good dental hygiene. Brush your teeth and tongue regularly,
floss, and use mouthwash.
Carry breath mints if you think there is even a small chance
you will be kissing. Don't forget a tube of chapstick to keep
your lips soft and smooth. Make sure it's not medicated
chapstick though, that stuff tastes terrible.
Avoid foods with an unpleasant or strong aftertaste. These
include garlic, onions, and most spicy foods. Don't smoke unless
she does.
Pick the right moment
Don't force her into a kiss. Make sure she wants it first.
How will you know for sure? Check her body language. If she
smiles a lot, touches you shamelessly, and bites or licks her
lips, she probably wants it.
Start with a closed mouth kiss and go from there
Don't just stick out your tongue and plow in. Start with a
gentle, closed-mouth kiss. Don't worry, it will escalate.
When you go in for the kiss do it with confidence. Act like
you've kissed her a million times. This may be hard, but
remember that confidence is the number one turn-on for women.
Take advantage of that.
Use your hands
This doesn't mean you have a license to grope around like a
horny moron. It simply means you need to place your hands where
they will have maximum effect. One of the best hand placements
for a French kiss goes like this: Left hand on her hip, right
hand on her side between her waist and underarm.
If that position isn't possible, you can touch her back, hair,
neck, or even the side of her face.
Take it slow
If your closed-mouth kiss didn't freak her out, try opening
your lips slightly. She should reciprocate at this point and
it's on!
Take it to the next level by opening your mouth a little more
and gently touch her tongue with yours. Keep the touch of your
tongue and lips soft. French kissing can be likened to dancing
in that a good kisser will smoothly flow and adapt to what their
partner is doing.
Do yourself a favor. Don't treat kissing as a stepping stone to
other activities. She'll know what you're thinking and it will
piss her off. A good kisser treats kissing like the main event.
He kisses like he's enjoying every second and doesn't want to do
anything else. Ironically, this is exactly what makes her want
to do everything else.
About The Author: Chris Williams is a contributing writer for
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