10 Tips For Writing The Perfect Wedding Vows
Author: Joshua Wills

1. Get a clean and nice sheet of paper. On the left portion of
the paper write down numbers 1 to 10. After that proceed by
writing without even thinking about what you will answer, just
write down whatever 10 things that will first come to mind in
response to this phrase "I love (my lover/partner's name) for
the reason of..." After writing it all set aside your paper.

2. Get another sheet of paper and in there write about all the
things that you will promise to your partner, what are the good
things you want to bring in with the union of hearts.

For example:
I will promise to be there with you during all kinds of moments
either good times or bad.
I promise to remain faithful for eternity
I promise to share all blessings and resources with you.

3. Think about how you want to address your partner in front of
others, whether it is Spouse, Wife, Husband, Hubby, and Partner
for life?

4. After steps 1-3 you may now take a break from preparing for
your wedding vows. Keep the papers that you've so far written on
and instead spend time with your partner, do something together
that will provide fun and excitement to both of you and remember
this moment once you continue with writing your wedding bows.

5. After that shared moment, its time to make a separate
wedding vow, you can make it totally unique from each other but
here's a great tip, if you are intent on writing a unique vow
from each other, make sure to add a sentence or paragraph that
has some similarities with the other person's vow. This will
express and symbolize a union within the both of you and at the
same time maintaining your individuality.

6. Going back to the different sheet of papers you've written
on in the first and second steps. It is best that you work
together and compare what you've written in the statements and
promises portion. Use a highlighter to highlight where you wrote
the same thing and remember the parts where you differ.

7. Choose from the list 4 or 5 things that you and your partner
wants, four or five reasons why you love each other and four or
five promises you want to say to each other.

8. Copy all of these on another clean sheet of paper.

9. A wedding vow should include a promise of a time frame, most
wedding vows consists of phrases like "For the rest of my days",
"For as long as eternity", etc. Choose the proper phrase that
expresses a promised time frame for your love to each other.
It's your call on what will you use.

10. Last thing after you've written your wedding vows is to
practice reading it to someone that you trust. Read it aloud and
afterwards ask the person how it sounded like? Does it sound
sincere? Is it touching? Is it okay enough to create a wonderful
wedding vow? Whatever the input that person might tell you, put
it in mind and try to improve it if it still lacking in message
and content. If the person you trust told you that it is already
a perfect wedding vow, then it's high time to celebrate and
congratulate each other for a job well done as a husband and
wife.


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