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Are You A Jealous Lover?
(How We Really Limit Ourselves In Manifesting)
(by Susan James)

Part of this essay is a metaphor for how we really keep ourselves from
having all that we keep saying we want in our lives, from flowing to
us manifest.

As many of us study metaphysics and other spiritual, as well as
inspirational/motivational material, we can be pretty successful up to
a point. We can fine tune ourselves, up to a point. We can smooth our
lives out, up to a point.

The Point: The Resistance Band.

Many of us have been in relationships, or known of others in relation-
ships, where there was jealously and possessiveness as a dynamic.

Usually in these type of relationships, one person mis-trusts the other,
or feels threatened of loss in some way. That same person, may then,
follow the other person, try to track them down, keep tabs on them,
harass them with phone calls and pleading.

We do this out of fear of losing something that we feel we really want
and need.

However, what actually happens, is that we move all of our focus, all
of our energy over into that possessive dynamic, thinking that this will
make the relationship better, in some way, or make us feel better in
some way.

We try and hold on for dear life to this relationship. We try to hold on
out of fear of losing it. And what we are actually doing, is choking off
that relationship, as well as we let all other things in our life suffer
unnecessarily. Other things suffer because we are so choked up
vibrationally, and choked off from universal flow, that nothing in our
lives can breathe good air. Everything suffers. Health, money, other
relationships, work projects.

We do the exact same things in our lives in regards to manifesting the
desires we keep saying we want to manifest, but never do. We do it in
our money lives. We do it in our relationships.

We go into some place of tension and resistance, out of fear of *what
if things don't work out*, and we become the jealous possessive lover
of things in our lives that we want to work out, but we are so afraid
that they wont, that we chase them and choke them off. We chase
them with our powerful fearful thoughts. *The Resistance Band*.

How do we expand beyond this resistance band?

A. We first *see* that this is in fact what we keep doing to our selves.
B.  We then pay attention to what we are *shown*, so that we expand
beyond it.

All of us are *shown* something different. Some of us will pay
attention and expand beyond that resistance band that has choked our
lives off. Some of us wont.

Why won's some of us pay attention and expand beyond the
resistance band, so that we get what we really want?

It takes human effort to clear the frontal lobe of our head space. It's
the frontal lobe that acts as an oven to bake our cookies as we would
prefer them to be.

Too many of us have dirty ovens and wont do the *work* required to
clean the ovens so that we bake our desires into full and wonderful
fruition. (Susan James/Copyright)

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