Oh, How Sweet It Is To Be Loved By You
Author: Jewel Di

Courtship never has to end in marriage - it should be viewed as
another dimension for unrelenting exchange of endearment,
excitement and adulation. Alas, this is not happening to
couples, which in fact is a foremost ground for coldness, apathy
eventually breakdown. Actually, unfaithfulness in marriage is
only an offshoot of this shortcoming. So, how do you keep the
music playing?

Never Underestimate the Power of Touch

Stroke her hair, cup her chin in a cute way tap her shoulder
from the side, hold hands in the most natural way- even if
everyone is watching, touch her cheek, lay your head on his
shoulders, there are many ways to touch to put across your
message of love.

Laughter is the Best Medicine

Try to infuse humor in the relationship to keep situations
light. Indeed, there are rainy days but there is no use to fret
about it forever, keep the laughter alive and joke about a
certain circumstance that you are fond of. Keep positive vibes
surround you both as best source of humors.

Gifts

A gift could be in any form, well, I love gifts that are least
expected. Normally, we ask people what they like so we would
know what to buy for them on special events, but I think it is
much sweeter if we allow our instinct to do that for us. Try to
recall conversations made in the past, pretty sure he/she has
mentioned things that of interest to him/her. Do not wait for
occasions to come for the opportunity to give. Give it away,
with all your heart.

Service

Offer to run errands for her to keep her schedule light.
Randomly do things in his/her behalf especially if you see she
has been squeezing in between schedules for some tasks. For men,
offer to do the groceries for her to have time for the salon and
for women, to prepare his clothes for the day or perhaps, grab
his favorite drink in the nearby coffee shop.

Words

Keep words of appreciation overflowing. Apologize if needed and
comfort him/her in distressing times. Listen to each other's
needs so you will know how to best respond, choose the right
words and timing when confrontation is needed.

Sex

Explore the possibilities to improve your sex life. Break
traditional rules and try new things. Change venue, change style
and change your approach. Talk about it, be open and keep the
ball rolling on who is going to be in charge. The key is you
keep the excitement like the first time.

There are more avenues within your reach to keep the burning
desire to be with your partner growing. The key is you keep your
heart open and teachable to bring out the best lover in you!


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