Learn How To Talk Dirty - 5 Tips
Author: Phoebe Aimes

Words are powerful in the boardroom, but they can be magical in
the bedroom. If you are looking for ways to spice up your sex
life, learn to turn him on the next time you get together with a
little bit of dirty talk. Here are 5 tips for opening up a new
chapter in the book of your lovemaking with him.

Tip #1: Set the tone for your encounter:  Breaking into this
new territory will be easier if you set the right ambience for
your intimate encounter together. Try lighting some candles, buy
a new piece of lingerie, or maybe put on some mood music. Of
course, make sure that you choose a time and place where you
will not have any interruptions and where nobody can hear your
murmurs of pleasure.

Tip #2: Give him a little teaser:  If you fear you might
embarrass him the first time you try talking dirty, try working
it slowly into your lovemaking the next time you get together.
As things are starting to warm up, encourage what he is already
doing by whispering passionately, "I love it when you do that."
This will give him confidence about his prowess and also provide
him with a teaser of what is to come.

Tip #3: Tell him what you want him to do to you: Once he
confidently knows that you think he already has some great
skills in bed, try dropping a hint during foreplay about what
you want him to do. Something as simple as whispering, "I would
love it if you did [fill in blank]" will do just fine. Say it
with a surrendering tone that tells him you will soon be putty
in his hands. Hint: to keep things moving, be sure to give him
plenty of feedback along the way.

Tip #4: Ask him what he wants you to do:  For your next
lovemaking session, ask him what he wants you to do to him. This
will get him talking dirty, which should be one of your goals.
Do not expect poetry from him (or yourself) and be sure not to
make light of his words if he sounds awkward at first. Just like
you, his ego in certain areas is fragile, so make sure to make
him feel comfortable saying whatever comes to his mind.

Tip #5: Turn up the heat with new vocabulary: Now, it is time
to turn up the heat by using words you would never dream of
saying outside of the bedroom. There is no need to "go XXX" here
(unless you sense the mood is right for both of you). But, do
start referring to each others' bodies and body parts in new and
colorful ways. For example, instead of just telling him what you
want him to do in general terms, be more specific. Describe what
you desire in vivid detail, telling him step by step what you
would like him to do, or what you want to do to him.

Talking dirty with you man in bed is one of those things that
may sound awkward or even silly when you are not in the right
kind of mood. But, once you get things going with your man,
slipping in a bit of dirty talk will do wonders for your sex
life. Soon, you may find that it becomes a regular part of your
sex play.


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