A Philosophy of Life
Author: Robert Elias Najemy

1. We are totally responsible for the reality we
experience.

2. We are immortal, inherently divine beings in a process
of evolution.

3. This evolution and our emotional and spiritual
maturation occur through a learning process stimulated and
sometimes forced upon us by life's events and
circumstances, and to a great degree, others' behaviors.

4. The unpleasant events, circumstances and behaviors
reflect parts of us that need transformation. They are
exactly what we need to trigger our growth. This is often,
but not always, painful and confusing. It is also sometimes
pleasant.

5. There are three variations of the force within us, which
attracts these life stimuli:
   a. Our past actions and behaviors.
   b. Our present psychosynthesis: beliefs, emotions,
expectations, behaviors, fears, attachments, internal
conflicts, roles which we play etc.
   c. The specific lessons we have come to learn as souls
in evolution.

6. There are four areas of our lives in which we receive
most of these lessons:
   a. Our close relationships (parents, spouse, children,
siblings).
   b. Our health and physical appearance.
   c. Our work environment.
   d. Various events such as accidents, marriage, divorce,
loss, gain, war, natural disasters and changes in general.

7. Most often our lessons are to be found in those aspects
of the above-mentioned areas which bother us, which are not
to our satisfaction, or are painful to us.

8. The lessons we need to learn in these areas can be
varied and multiple but fall the following general
categories:
   a. To transform our conscious and subconscious
beliefs.
   g. To change our attitudes and behavior.
   c. To communicate more clearly, assertively and
effectively.
   d. To change our way of life.
   e. To make efforts to improve the world around us.

9. In general, our lessons involve transforming beliefs and
fall into categories:
   a. Beliefs which we need to change in order to cease
attracting or creating a situation, which bothers us.
   b. Beliefs which we need to transform in order to be
able to accept the situation exactly as it is.
   c. Beliefs which we need to change in order to
communicate more effectively with others concerning what is
happening.
   d. Beliefs which we need to transform in order to be
able to actively improve the external situation.

10. In order to discover what we need to learn and
transform, we need first discover what there is in our own
nature which is reflecting or projecting here. These
reflections and projections are often multiple but falling
into the two categories.
   a. Aspects of ourselves (beliefs, behaviors, emotions)
which attract and sustain this behavior, event, or
circumstance.
   b. Beliefs which make those particular behaviors,
events, or circumstances unacceptable and painful for us.

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years of experience, has trained over 300 life coaches and
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