Top 10 Flirting Lines To Avoid
Author: Claire Brent

The Internet is a world of language that requires some very
serious communication skills in order to express yourself. It
is, therefore, important that when you communicate with your
online crush, you're very careful to make sure that each of
your communications is positive and deliberate. When it comes
to dating online, it is very easy to date many people over a
short amount of time. Dating, after all, involves getting to
know a variety of people and then choosing one person to focus
your attention on.

Because you need to be appreciative of language when you begin
a relationship online, it is important that you understand the
effects of your language. There are, in fact, a variety of
things that should be avoided when you begin a relationship
with someone online. Here is a short list of the Top 10
flirting lines that you should avoid when meeting someone
online:

10. "I'm looking to get married pretty soon. Are you
available?"

This line comes across as slightly desperate. Dating means that
you try several people before choosing just one. Therefore,
don't rush things; date awhile.

9. "Do you have any STDs?"

While it's important to learn about your partner's sexual
health, when you are barely even a couple, it is considered
rude and presumptuous to ask about sexually transmitted
diseases.

8. "Mothers really love me."

While a line like that, it's not surprising that you're single.
Be slow to show off the full breadth of your ego and make sure
that the relationship is grounded in friendship before you talk
about meeting the parents.

7. "Are you hot?"

While asking about a person's physical looks (or temperature)
may appear to be important, if you are going to build a
lasting, sustainable relationship, it's far better to start
with questions about your mate's personality and emotions.

6. "What's Your Income?"

Yes, finances are important to many relationships, In fact,
most relationships break up because of finances. However, if ou
are going to have a solid relationship, it would be preferable
to base it in things other than money.

5. "What Kind of Car Do You Drive?"

Just as income is important, so are reliable cars. However, it
is vital that you start your relationship with questions that
are most positive and down to earth than the car they
drive…unless, of course, you meet in an automotive chat room.

4. "What do you look like?"

It is important to eventually find out about the appearance of
your online crush. However, try to start simpler. Ask, instead,
about matters of the heart. If things work out, then work your
way towards asking learning more about physical appearance.

3. "Do you want to meet tonight?"

Even if you have a fabulous conversation with your online
crush, it's a bad idea to ask somewhat out of the blue for a
meeting. Instead, work your way up to a meeting to ensure that
you create a solid base.

2. "I hope you do drugs."

It's a wise idea to avoid meeting people online that do drugs.
Not only will it be difficult to trust them, but when a major
pick-up line involves narcotics, the relationship is likely not
one that is built to last.

1. "Are you easy."

Discontinue communication immediately if your online crush asks
you if you are easy…unless of course you are looking for a
one-night stand or purely physical relationship.

Online dating is an entirely new world that brings with it new
risks and new opportunities. It's important for you to learn
the ropes of online dating in order to play the game
strategically. Often, learning the ropes means that you will
have to go through some bad online relationships in order to
find some good people to date.

Take the journey and, by all means, enjoy the ride … especially
when those cheesy pick-up lines are used.


About The Author: Claire Brent is the author of the free 7 days
mini course "Online Dating Mastery". Discover the essential
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