How To Approach A Woman And Score
Author: Amit Laufer

A lot of men preceive the task of starting a conversation with
a woman especially if she is highly attractive stranger a hard
and discomforting one. Besides that, they typically take the
wrong attitude of being too nice and over openhanded with
flowers, paying for dinners and expressing their lack of
confidence and low self esteem.

The women on their part are not attracted to unconfident,
dishonest, wussy men. They will either decline him on the spot
or possibly worse take advantage of the situation by exploiting
him to furnish her meal after meal, present after present and
usually see other man for real love, romance and sex. In this
situation the woman has two men a provider and a lover.

The nice boy, fawning, wussy approach may be observed Whenever
a man is requsting a woman to dance or offer to buy her a drink
without ever to build the attraction or chemistry.

Is Cocky rather then Wussy is the answer?

The nice boy attitude is not the perfect way as we realized
above and being really mean and vulgar won't function either,
the correct way that has proven 90% of the times to work
magnificently with women is the confident, bold, cocky and
funny attitude.

In this approach you build the relationships on a give and
take, a flattering remark and a bust (with a smile), you
indicate the woman you'r self assured enough to criticize her,
you express yourself naturally neer women, you aren't scared of
her, you are not caring if she likes you or not, you are genuine
and express your opinions openly, you are playing the confident
hard funny guy. Now you bring her self confidence to the test,
you challenge her, you intrigue her, you build the attraction.
Let her chase you! You need to be her prize, a reward for her
hard earned efforts for behaving like she should have with you.


For example you start and Say something such as: I like your
jacket it's really nice (a flattering remark), then comment:
but it doesn't fit so well with your shoos does it ? (a bust),
you do it on purpose, you ought to practice on it.

You should tease her like hand it to her and then take it away
in the last minute, be spontaneous, unexpected, a teaser and
fascinating.

How do you know if she is interested?

Its simpler than you believe and it goes like that: You engage
with her: What a beautiful pair of boots you'r wearing , I
really like them, She is looking who is it and then say:
Thanks. You: arent you melting in them at such a hot weather?
(smiling) or are you trying to hide your feet from me? She:
(smiling) hell, no, I love them thats all, Ill bet my feet are
nicer in comparison with yours, Mr. long nose. (she responded
so she is engaged too *-). You: wow, I understand you develop a
very good opinion about yourself attractive lady, why wont we
arrange a feet contest...

The important thing is to keep it running with light humoristic
and fun approach. Without even realizing it you are mutually
engaged in developing a relationship and building your mutual
attraction.

Whenever you start dating with a woman keep in mind you are not
on an employment interview, don't make it sound like questions
and answers, don't make it boring, don't try to show off, talk
with her just about general things she likes and sympathize
with, such as famous Television shows etc, it may look to you
at first to a certain extent superficial but this is the way to
go. Try to avoid, at least at the begining, talking on your
problems at work, your relations with your parents etc'.


About The Author: Amit Laufer is a writer and internet
marketer. MBA & Bsc. Computers and Information Systems Owner
Editor of: http://www.dates-i-love.com/