Sex In Relationships: Is It Worth The Wait?
Author: Ron Zvagelsky

There will come a point that serious relationships will be put
towards the test, sometimes becoming so intimate that couples
will soon want to take it to another level. While sex is not
usually the immediate reason why people get into relationships,
a lot have lead towards making sex a common happening for people
who want to try out something more adventurous.

Gone are the days of the conservative approaches, wherein
couples would usually just go out, watch a movie, attend
parties and gatherings or even just have a quiet meal in nearby
restaurants. The trend today has become entirely different.
Pre-marital sex has become a common happening that people will
engage in despite various warnings. Testimony to this is the
growing number of people who have become young parents due to
uncontrollable circumstances. Because of this, young people are
forced to take on responsibility and a different approach
towards life, owing to the fact that what they find themselves
into is no laughing matter.

Thus, relationships today require a certain amount of
discipline and patience. It is a test for most couples in young
relationships to consider the various things they might consider
doing and the aftermath of engaging in such. A true test of the
strength of a relationship is measured through the waiting time
that both individuals are willing to undertake. For most people,
especially the males, they use sex as a means of getting
immediate satisfaction and tag it as a sign of love from their
female counterparts. This is such a lame excuse for measuring
how much a woman would love a man, especially if the former
would have second thoughts of giving in to the demands of the
males. It is only fitting that females want to maintain their
virginity to the proper man that will truly deserve them, not
only for a temporary moment in their lives.

Hence, waiting for the proper time before engaging in sexual
activities should be approached in a mature way. Love is not
measured by sexual intercourse, but rather the ability of
people to respect the decision of others, especially during
doubtful times. A woman can only lose her virginity once. A man
who is unable to respect this right is truly not after a true
relationship, but rather for personal satisfaction. It is only
fitting that sexual intercourse will take place at the time
when both parties are sure that they are ready to take on the
possible results from such an act. It should not be purely for
satisfaction but also being ready for the consequences of
engaging in sexual intercourse.


About The Author: Ron Zvagelsky has a degree in Business
Administration from the University of Southern California. He
graduated Magna Cum Laude in May 2006. He is currently the
Chief Executive Officer of PlanJam – where you can find
http://www.planjam.com/romanticdate.html