Author: Matt Huston
Insecurity / Neediness
Women absolutely hate men who are not secure with themselves. I
shutter whenever I hear a man say "do you like me?", "what would
you rate me out of 10?", "Am I good in bed?", "Do you think my
penis is big?" The list could literally go on forever. It is
truly pathetic. Please stop acting insecure!
Jealousy
Jealousy is a manifestation of insecurity. Men are basically
jealous of other men because they feel threatened. A truly high
value man would not feel threatened by anyone, regardless of how
good looking, rich or powerful they were. You need to assume the
attitude "other men only make me look good" and if you follow
David DeAngelo's advice, other men actually will only make you
look good. I'd say 95% of guys out there have no clue how to
handle women.
Seriousness
Guys who take themselves too seriously are very unattractive to
women. It's basically the one main reason very intelligent men
fail with women: they have no sense of humor. You need to start
taking life one moment at a time. Work on developing DeAngelo's
unique Cocky/Funny personality and you'll notice women becoming
magnetically attracted to you.
I really don't want to over hype DeAngelo's stuff, but I can
tell you from personal experience that the Cocky/Funny technique
is the one thing that gave me the best results, very fast.
Developing a Cocky/Funny personality will shed away the
seriousness you harbor within. Women will love it.
Controlling Behavior
Men who demand their girlfriend not do specific things only
cause them to want to do it all the more. Guys who demand that
their girlfriend not hang out with other men or go to clubs or
hang out with her friends are very unattractive. In essence, the
forbidden behavior becomes alluring to women and they want to do
it all the more.
It's important that if you have a girlfriend already or when
you eventually get one that you not put any handcuffs on her.
Don't ask her where she's at all the time, who she's with, get
mad at her for checking out some other guy or anything of that
nature. Just let her be. Remember that no amount of insecure
bitching on your part will change anything. Choose indifference.
Bribery
I see a lot of guys bribing women with gifts and other such
gestures. The problem with this is that it comes across as
though you're trying to bribe the women into liking you. It's
basically cheap, ineffective manipulation. You think it's just
you being nice but that's not how she sees it.
Women want a fun, interesting, playful guy who can turn even
the most mundane activity into an adventure with his personality
alone. DeAngelo really taught me how to foster and develop that
very personality so I didn't have to buy women gifts just to get
them to like me. In fact, he taught me that the very act of
buying gifts demonstrated to the women that I was not enough and
that I had low self esteem. It truly is interesting how women
think.
About The Author: For more info on David DeAngelo and how women
think, click the following link:
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