5 Mistakes Women Make With Men
Author: Elliot Beers

For some women, sustaining a worthwhile relationship with a man
is almost like trying to win the lottery. They have no trouble
talking to men or even dating them, but for whatever reason they
can not build enough attraction from their partners to keep them
coming back for more. Here are some mistakes women make that can
send a man running in the opposite direction.

Too Much Information

While it is important to get to know the person you are dating,
some women simply don't leave enough to the imagination. If you
find yourself talking about family problems and old boyfriends
on your first few dates, then chances are that you are guilty of
revealing too much. The initial period of dating should be
absolute bliss for both sides, and not dragged down by skeletons
in the closet.

Not Enough Listening

It can be refreshing to meet new people and have the
opportunity to share your opinions and dreams, just remember
that your new man is also excited to the same. Taking control of
the conversation or forcing your ideals on someone is not
romantic. Make sure you provide adequate openings in your
dialogue for responses. A simple way to make sure you are not
taking over the spotlight is to ask your date questions. This
will give them a chance to share their feelings without
interrupting you.

Dishonesty

Some women become so self-conscious about themselves that they
stretch the truth about everything from finances to outside
interests. They want so badly to attract a good man that they
believe saying what he wants to hear is the easiest route to
take. Of course this strategy may work for the first few dates,
but ultimately the truth will come out and you will be exposed.
Being honest keeps your conscience clear and will help you meet
someone with the same interests as you.

High Expectations

It is natural to be excited about the prospect of new love, but
you have to be careful not to let expectations spoil the fun.
Guys don't want to hear about your plans for marriage and family
life early in a relationship. You have to attract them with your
personality and charm before they will even consider a second
date. The bottom line is to let things progress naturally. Not
only can expectations eliminate a perfectly suitable candidate,
but they take the spontaneity out of romance.

Controlling Yourself

The big secret to making a man want you is creating a curiosity
or mystery about yourself. You want him to fantasize about you
and wonder which direction your romance will take him. For this
reason you need to lead him along slowly. Control your passions
and keep him coming back for more. Be patient to see if he will
wait for you. If he does then you know you have the beginning of
a strong attraction.

There is good reason why some women consistently falter with
men while others seem to catch them like fish. It is all about
presentation and focusing on the natural male desires. This
means making him feel good about himself and keeping him
guessing on what your next move will be. Avoiding mistakes like
talking too much and creating ridiculous expectations will give
you the opportunity to set this strategy in motion.


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