Seven Keys to a Great Relationship
Author: Helene Rothschild


Seven Keys to a Great Relationship
Are you ready to create the relationship you desire? When
you have the ingredients to a successful partnership, your
chances of maintaining a strong, love connection can be
increased. Love is not enough. It also takes commitment to
self-growth, communication, and unconditional love.

The following seven guidelines can assist you to attract
and enjoy a successful relationship.

1. I am ready to create what I want in a relationship.

Become clear about what you want in your relationship. Then
share your thoughts with your partner. Know that you are
powerful enough to have what you desire and that you
deserve it.

2. I am my own best friend and I am responsible for my own
life and happiness.

Love and like yourself and look to your relationship as the
icing on the cake. Know that you are whole and complete by
yourself and that you are the only one who can bring you
lasting happiness.

3. I am learning to communicate clearly, specifically and
constructively.

Take the time to communicate with yourself so that you can
clearly tell your partner how you feel and what you want
and need. Remember that you are responsible for all of your
emotions and that you are okay no matter what your partner
says or does.

4. I am letting go of hurtful thoughts and feelings from my
past relationships.

Heal your past issues with your parents, siblings, and
other loved ones. Then you will be able to clearly see your
partner for who he or she really is.

5. I am continually seeking excitement, fun, and the magic
of life with my partner.

Be romantic and explore different activities that you and
your partner can enjoy. Create new ways to have fun and to
keep your relationship alive and stimulating. For example,
schedule weekly date nights.

6. I am encouraging my partner and myself to explore and
develop our individual potentials.

Both you and your loved one will be a lot happier when you
become all that you are. It takes two happy people to make
a happy, successful relationship.

7. I love and accept my partner and myself unconditionally.

Focus on unconditionally loving yourself and then you will
be able to offer the same true love to your partner.
Unconditional love means heartfelt caring and kindness even
though you may not approve of an action. It is an important
key to health, happiness, success, and a fantastic
relationship.

About the Author:

(c)2007 Helene Rothschild, MS, MA, MFT, is a Marriage, Family
Therapist, intuitive counselor, speaker, and author. The
article is excerpts from her new book, "ALL YOU NEED IS
HART!" She offers phone sessions, teleclasses, books,
e-books, MP3 audios, tapes, posters, independent studies,
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1-888-639-6390.