The Fine Art Of Seduction, Why Being You Is More
Important.
Author: Charles Day

I love theorising about seduction, men and women and
relationships. Its a debate that will continue for ever, mostly
because it is all based upon a point of view. A seduction
technique that might work on one woman might result in a
slapped face if tried on another woman. The point is, you can
not pigeon hole people into categories, especially when were
dealing with high emotions. Were all different; the real art of
seduction is taking the time to understand and appreciate people
for who they are.

Its worth repeating, the real art of seduction is taking the
time to understand and appreciate people for who they are. How
often in your life has someone taken the time to speak to you,
ask you questions and show that they are genuinely interested
in you and just you. No ulterior motive, no emotional trade
offs, just quality time spent getting to know you. I can almost
guarantee, if you have experienced this the likelihood is that
you were spellbound by the attention. You were the centre of
attention. In a nut shell that is the secret art of seduction.

As people, we all like to feel as though we are the centre of
attention, we like to feel valued, of interest and need the
comfort that people want to spend time with us for no other
reason than simply because of whom we are. It makes us feel
good, it raises our confidence and self belief, and we all want
to spend time with people that make us feel this way. Are you
starting to see it now? By making people feel great about them,
you are creating an invisible bond of association.

So you can disregard all of the other advice about seduction.
Its not a science; its not something that can be achieved by
buying a particular brand of drink or saying complimentary
things about the way someone looks. The good news is that it is
something that we can all do if we put our minds to it.

In summary, take the time to speak with people. Listen to them
and devote yourself to the conversation. Take the time to
understand them and have empathy with them, youll soon start to
see marked improvements in your seduction success rate. Youll
also start to feel like you are contributing more to people and
receiving a lot more back. Treat people as people, not as an
object.


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