Help! What Are Some Of The Details For A Great
Baby Shower?
Author: Theresa Moore

What Type of Shower to Have?

Surprise baby showers can be a lot of fun. You can get the
dad-to-be along with other friends and family members in on
planning just how to set up the surprise and how to get the
guest of honor to the shower at the right time. When
considering a surprise baby shower, be considerate of the new
mother's schedule and circumstances. If she is working all day,
a nighttime baby shower may not be as enjoyable as going home
and putting her feet up to rest a tired back. Think about
having a weekend baby shower under those circumstances.

One way to make the party a surprise without all the worry of
will she fall for the ploy of getting her there is to plan an
evening or afternoon out, but then secretly have it set up as a
baby shower. You can tell her all the women at the office would
love to take her to dinner, but then have each person surprise
her with a gift at the restaurant. This is a great way for a
small group of people to shower her with gifts. It is also low
key on the planning and easy on the budget.

Beyond surprise baby showers, a baby shower can have a theme
that goes beyond the traditional pink and blue with a stork
décor. You can have a baby shower with virtually any theme and
in any location. Chapter 3 explains in detail some of the
themes you might use for a non-traditional baby shower.

Who To Invite

Before you can decide where to hold your baby shower, you will
need to know how many people you are having and who they are.
You really wouldn't want to have the shower in a formal museum
setting if you are planning on inviting extended family
including small children. Your budget may also dictate how many
people you can invite and mean selecting only the people closest
to the new parents.

Traditional baby showers were for women only, and it is still
common to have these events limited to women. However, in order
to make the new dad feel a part of things, he will often attend
at least part of the baby shower. It is acceptable to have the
father-to-be show up at the end to help load up the car with
all of the goodies showered upon the baby and to say hello, and
even help with the gift opening. However, he may feel a little
uncomfortable sitting in a room of women giggling and talking
about their labor and delivery experiences, so he may opt to
attend only if the shower includes other husbands, fathers and
brothers.

Family only showers are another option, especially if you have
a very large family and want to include children. Children,
especially those anxiously awaiting a new cousin, will enjoy
being a part of the festivities but you must accommodate them
with appropriate activities or they will be bored, even unruly,
and can spoil the event. Be sure to have plenty of games and
activities in which they can participate. (See chapter 6 and
the appendix for game ideas.) Be considerate of the guests of
honor in deciding if you should invite children to the shower.

You don't necessarily have to have more than one shower if your
group is small enough. You can combine co-workers, family, men
and women if you have the space or plan on renting space. Since
everyone on the invitation list has the mother-to-be as a common
friend, the group will natural blend. Chapter 6 also includes
good games for breaking the ice and getting people who don't
know each other mingling, laughing and having a good time.

If the timing doesn't work out to have one larger shower, or if
you truly don't think the two mothers-in-law can be in the same
room, you can hold separate showers. Co-workers may invite his
mother to the shower they are hosting, while a shower with
friends from the neighborhood can include her mother.

The most important factor in deciding who to invite to the baby
shower is to make sure the mom-to-be's best friends and closest
family are included first. Then open up your guest list to
anyone who may want to wish the parents well with a small
celebration and gifts. They do not have to be particularly
close to the guests of honor, but have an interest in their new
family. Have Fun!


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