What's The Point? Understanding Woman Speak
Author: Jason Flintstone
Author: Jason Flintstone
Women and men communicate differently with women being more
verbal and vocal and men not so much. Women are also much more
emotional and many would "argue" speak an entirely different
language altogether. And some (okay, most) would insist that
they encode what they mean or are trying to say behind
frivolous words and phrases.
But, if you've got one of these beguiling creatures in you
life, it's up to YOU to figure her out and figure out what she
really means, especially if you want to keep the piece.
Sorry Situations: Just because she apologizes doesn't mean she
thinks she was wrong (in fact she probably doesn't believe she
was). All it really means is that she's initiating the
reconciliation, and the LEAST she expects you to do is admit
your faults and say you're sorry too.
Weighty Issues: Most women want and need to be affirmed and
want to know that they are still attractive to their man. So,
when she asks if she looks fat, she's simply fishing for
compliments and wants to know you think of her as beautiful.
Make sure your answer is honest BUT accentuates her
attractiveness and her appeal (In fact, if you don't like how
she looks, you may want to say, you look lovely in that but I
tend to prefer you in a dress, or pants, or in that red outfit,
etc)
Her Get Up and Go: She may start hinting that she's tired or
has lots to do tomorrow. She may even suggest that you stay
behind and have a good time. Dude, that's you cue to get ready
to go.
Kidding Around: She may be complimenting you sense of humor and
your disposition with nieces and nephews, but in reality she
wants to know your thoughts on kids, having some of your own,
and how soon. Even if you don't foresee having children in the
immediate future, keep in mind that ladies like to look ahead,
well ahead, so, if you're not opposed to the idea (even if it
is down the road) give her the answer she's fishing for, or
come up with an equally indirect response of your own.
Fine And Seek: She gives every indication that there may be
something wrong, but when you ask she assures you it's
"nothing". Well guys, you just may be damned if you do and
damned if you don't. If you take it at face value that
everything is status quo, she'll continue being annoyed, but if
do your job and identify the problem, you just may be in for a
fight. But, remember she's WAITING for you to figure it out and
to be given the chance to get it off her chest.
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verbal and vocal and men not so much. Women are also much more
emotional and many would "argue" speak an entirely different
language altogether. And some (okay, most) would insist that
they encode what they mean or are trying to say behind
frivolous words and phrases.
But, if you've got one of these beguiling creatures in you
life, it's up to YOU to figure her out and figure out what she
really means, especially if you want to keep the piece.
Sorry Situations: Just because she apologizes doesn't mean she
thinks she was wrong (in fact she probably doesn't believe she
was). All it really means is that she's initiating the
reconciliation, and the LEAST she expects you to do is admit
your faults and say you're sorry too.
Weighty Issues: Most women want and need to be affirmed and
want to know that they are still attractive to their man. So,
when she asks if she looks fat, she's simply fishing for
compliments and wants to know you think of her as beautiful.
Make sure your answer is honest BUT accentuates her
attractiveness and her appeal (In fact, if you don't like how
she looks, you may want to say, you look lovely in that but I
tend to prefer you in a dress, or pants, or in that red outfit,
etc)
Her Get Up and Go: She may start hinting that she's tired or
has lots to do tomorrow. She may even suggest that you stay
behind and have a good time. Dude, that's you cue to get ready
to go.
Kidding Around: She may be complimenting you sense of humor and
your disposition with nieces and nephews, but in reality she
wants to know your thoughts on kids, having some of your own,
and how soon. Even if you don't foresee having children in the
immediate future, keep in mind that ladies like to look ahead,
well ahead, so, if you're not opposed to the idea (even if it
is down the road) give her the answer she's fishing for, or
come up with an equally indirect response of your own.
Fine And Seek: She gives every indication that there may be
something wrong, but when you ask she assures you it's
"nothing". Well guys, you just may be damned if you do and
damned if you don't. If you take it at face value that
everything is status quo, she'll continue being annoyed, but if
do your job and identify the problem, you just may be in for a
fight. But, remember she's WAITING for you to figure it out and
to be given the chance to get it off her chest.
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website
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