Secrets Of Seduction : Using Humour As Your
Secret Weapon
Author: Steve Armstrong

You've approached the object of your desires. You've got a
first date. How do you carry it off and make sure she's
"hooked" on you?

I'll let you in on the Master Seducer's secret – humour.

If you can make a girl laugh and giggle, then most of the hard
work of seduction is done. Why? Because laughing makes people
happy – it releases endorphins in the brain which make us feel
good. And we like being around people who make us feel good
(makes sense, doesn't it).

It is also the best form of relaxation – laughing is known to
lower the heart rate. And if a girl feels happy and relaxed in
your presence on a first date, then your 90% there.

It's natural on a first date for the barriers to be up – she
will be mentally screening you, checking you out. It can make
for a very nervy encounter on both sides. But with the use of
humour, you make her smile, make her laugh and she becomes
relaxed and open. And that should be your goal for a first
date.

So how should you use humour?

Well, I'm not advocating you be a clown. Don't go overboard,
and don't just mindlessly memorise loads of jokes and reel them
off – if she'd wanted to go and see a stand up comedian, she
wouldn't be on a date with you would she?

A few jokes are ok – pick yourself up a good joke book, or look
online. Find a handful of good jokes and memorise them. Throw in
one or two slightly risqué ones if you feel she is warming to
you (but not overly smutty or chauvinistic)

Joke about your environment – the surroundings you are in.

Tell her funny stories and anecdotes about your past, your
work, your experiences. Prepare in advance and think of these
things in advance.

Watch comedies on television and hire some comedy and stand up
comedy DVD's. These will give you a few funny sketches you can
reel off, plus they will help you "tune in" to being funny.

Remember, your aim when using humour is to make her smile,
laugh and relax. You should be able to quickly assess what kind
of things make her laugh and adjust your humour accordingly. You
don't want her rolling around on the floor, crying with
laughter.

Learn how to put a woman at ease with humour and you will never
have a problem seducing the woman of your dreams.


About The Author: Steve Armstrong is an expert on the
psychology of seduction and has written an e-book "Get The Girl
: Become a Master of Seduction Effortlessly". His website is at
http://www.getthegirl.net