Secret Of A Happy Marriage
Author: Rene Graeber

Never ever fight!

Disagreements can sometimes be healthy in a relationship if
done once in a while. Never allow fighting to eat away your
relationship. In fighting, both parties lose the fight. No one
ever wins.

Fighting can be damaging. It involves emotions. When emotions
get involved, you may say harmful things that you really dont
mean to say, and unfortunately whats done can never be taken
back.

As much as possible, avoid getting into a heated argument. A
fight can easily damage a marital relationship. The fight may
start over an unimportant matter and before you both know it,
it soon escalates into an exchange of offensive words.

Always remember the Law of Harvest. Dont continue to sow seeds
of you always or you never into your relationship so that you
will not reap it. Whatever you focus on and hear over and over
again becomes a reality.

Avoid using the following words:

You did it again!
When will you learn?
I cant believe this. I married someone whos not capable of
doing things right.
This is such a mess!

Don´t pull out the big gun when argument progresses and
emotions rise to the surface for the sake of winning. Don´t try
to bring in the past. Let bygones be bygones forever. Stay out
of it. Leave it where it belongs. Bringing up the past in an
argument can add fuel to the fire. Focus only on the present
situation no matter how difficult it is.

In a fight no one really wins because both parties lose the
game. This affects closeness of the husband and wife. Gaps
arise because of the fight. Your spouse will feel awkward when
you are around after the fight. Fighting is really immature
regardless of how old you are or how long you have been
married. It is only natural for children but not for adults.

Treat your spouse the treatment he or she deserves. Be careful
with the words that you use.


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